Posts Tagged ‘ love ’

Real life struggle

Been dealing with it for so long, been holding in too much. 

I need a get away, a safe place. I’m tired of dealing with humanity..

What gives YOU the right to determine the faith of any living thing, with a heart, a brain, feelings and emotions. 

This is probably not the smartest decision but i’m willing to take the heat. 

You’re my sunshine, my smile, my life, my morning and my night, my in- between, my during, my before and will always be.

How can you be so relevant, how did you become my life, when did i fall in love with you?

… and who dares try to take you away from me, even worst:

who dares to reject your sweet love, your tender kisses, your beautiful brown eyes. 

suckers! They have no hearts, so blind they can’t even see the amount of happiness you can give.

But you dont need to, you dont need their approval, you only need me.

You only need my love, my hugs at night, my kisses everyday.

Random gifts, spontaneous trips everyday!

 

i love you, to the moon && back my sweet bear ❤

Image

 

In my mind,

yes, heather headley is in my mind. 

if you dont know about this wonderful singer let me put a scenario for you,

 

“Imagine seeing him on the town holding another hand,

she’s staring me down, so i figured that he told her

who i am

but it dont matter either way what they do or say cause aint nothing changed

he’s standing with her but his soul is calling out my name

in my mind, ill always be his lady, in my mind i’ll always be his girl” 

 

 

holyyyy, oh man. that’s something that you have to listen to, youtube it!

Now, as a woman, i have 2 sides to this. I can feel like the woman in front of him, or the woman beside him. 

As the woman in front of him, i can feel like i own this man. Let’s get real, i still have the attachment to this man who can’t seem to move on, even though he dates other women. Which in a way can be really satisfying, and at the same time it’s still damaging to my self esteem. 

 

or

 

I can feel like the woman beside him. Watching this go down, as if there is nothing that i could do, but let this woman in front of me take over my man’s heart with just a sight. isn’t that crazy? 

 

how we love those who hurt us, 

and hurt those who love us?

 

 

Bull

Bull

The new love of my life ❤

Late night Post

“Smash Into You”

Head down
As I watch my feet take turns hitting the ground
Eyes shut
I find myself in love racing the Earth
And I’m soaked in your love
And love was right in my path, in my grasp
And me and you belong
I wanna run.. Run..
Smash into you

Ears closed
What I hear no one else has to know
Cause’ I know
That what we have is worth first place in gold
And I’m soaked in your love
And love is right in my path, in my grasp
And me and you belong, oh…

I wanna run (run)
Smash into you
I wanna run (run)
Smash into you
Oh……

Head down
As I watch my feet take turns hitting the ground
Eyes shut
I’m in love and I’m racing the Earth
And I’m soaked in your love
And love is right in my path, in my grasp
And me and you belong
Oh…I wanna run
Smash into you
I’m willing to run (run)
Smash into you
I’m willing to run, run, run, run, ooh ooh ooh ooh ooh
I’m willing to run, run, run, run, ooh ooh ooh ooh ooh
I wanna run, run
Smash into you
I’m willing to run (run)
Smash into you

 
A song a day. 

 

The year of the survivors!

Hello 2013, hello to all who made it through another year of constant struggle and pain as well as some beauty! Now now, dont call me a pessimist, i must speak reasonably and from experience.

I have learned a couple of things this year, and well, i wanted to share. 

Hey once a year doesn’t hurt!

This year; like every year, i have lost and made friends, lost a lot of things but gained so much more. This year has taught me to be a fighter, to keep my head held high through all the chaos and struggles. 

Some tips ;

DONT hesitate. Do it, there is a reason that this opportunity has come your way (unless it’s taking candy from a stranger, or getting into a stranger’s van) 

We grow up with the idea of being so sheltered and so careful to get hurt that we’re never taught what to do when it happens. Sometimes, getting hurt is good, i may sound crazy YES! but seriously, it’s a reminder that we’re only humans and we are allowed to make mistakes, making mistakes isnt bad either, we’re all humans! nobody’s perfect! 

Learn to forgive.. mostly yourself 

Now i can go ahead for hours and rant about what that means, but this goes for anybody in need of some comforting. Hey, we mess up sometimes. We cannot go out into the world apologizing to a million and one people when we cannot even forgive ourselves. i believe that’s the problem with society, we care too much about other people and too little about ourselves.THERE IS NOBODY IN THE WORLD MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOU, you know why i say that? because everyone is capable of hurting you (yes, even your mom) so at the end of the day, dont block your heart just shelter it, and love it and breathe! love yourself a little more, lose those extra pounds, spend on that expensive dress, buy the best food, visit the most beautiful places, and treat yourself like royalty, because people notice when you like yourself.. they really notice.

 

Now, love life.

I’m no expert in love life, i have had some very beautiful relationships and i have had some terrible relationships. The word “survivor” couldnt apply more than on this topic! Being in love, falling in love, or not, is one of the hardest things to do in life. This year i hope to see some strong woman come out of it. i want to see woman, in love, in a healthy relationship, who love themselves enough to love someone else fully.

The problem with woman nowadays is that they are too available, get upset if you want to but that is the truth, and honestly to anyone getting upset.. you’re probably one of them. This world has come to a scary point, where girls can have kids at 15 and parents are okay with it, and where children are going out all night without parental permission nor consequences, what is the beauty in that? Women, need to be better example to your children, to your siblings. Men like a woman who is smart, and can hold their own. Independence is key lady, you do not need a man to pay for your lunch all the time, that’s why you work. This topic is extremely touchy, but ill go into it anyway. Sometime, we sit and complain about how a men gets paid more than a women, and how we do not have equal rights and dadadada. Equal rights, well, why do we still expect men to act like in the old days, where they pay everything and do everything, Is that really fair? They’re allowed to pay for everything, but you who want to be treated differently follow the same old tactics, that will never solve this! Love is difficult, yes but is it worth is? absolutely so find a way to love yourself and be okay with yourself before you go and love someone else. 

 

And that is all i got today, thank you followers!

Thank you strangers, come back and browse!

Kp 

Jessie J – Who You Are Live TS

ooo yeah, oooyeah.

I stare at my reflection in the mirror

why am i doing this to myself?

losing my mind on a tiny error

i nearly left the real me on the shelf

no no no no no. dont lose who you are

in the blur of the stars,

seeing is deceiving dreaming is believing

it’s okay not to be okay

sometimes its hard to follow your heart

but tears dont mean you’re losing everybody’s bruisin

there’s nothing wrong with who you are.

Who you are (x10)

Brushing my hair do i look perfect

i forgot what to do to fit the mold yeah

the more i try the less its working

cause everything inside me screams

No(x9)

dont lose who you are

in the blur of the stars,

seeing is deceiving dreaming is believing

it’s okay not to be okay

sometimes its hard to follow your heart

but tears dont mean you’re losing everybody’s bruisin

there’s nothing wrong with who you are.

Yes No’s egos fake shows like wow

just go

and leave me alone

real talk real life

good love good night

with a smile that’s my home

that’s my home..

HEY!  hello NY… I’m from London, My name is Jessie J

I hope you’re havin a nice day you all look really like .. 

yeah ! no no no no no no no yeah..

don’t lose who you are

in the blur of the stars,

seeing is deceiving dreaming is believing

it’s okay not to be okay

sometimes its hard to follow your heart

but tears dont mean you’re losing everybody’s bruisin

there’s nothing wrong with who you are.

Finding the right guy

There is no easy way to say this, but TIME is going to help you heal any old wounds from old relationships.

If you’re still reading, shows you have some type of patience.

 

Well i’m the love expert.  No..Really.

Truth is, in order to have a great guy in your life, you must be 100% ready to be in a relationship. what’s the perfect guy if not the perfect time right?

If you think you’re ready but need some reassurance let me ask you a couple questions and you answer to yourself and decide if you’re really ready.

 

Q:

Do you prefer the perfect guy or the perfect relationship?

Do you think you can sit next to a guy and feel completely comfortable with him looking at you?

 

– Love isn’t easy and it isn’t worth it if its not worked for.

Okay now i will tell you how to reel in your perfect guy

1. Be modest, don’t be needy. If there’s one thing guys hate is feeling attached.

Instead of calling and texting him a million times or stalking his website, how about you read a book or go for a run get your mind off of him. The obsession has GOT to stop.

2. Expect the best for yourself.

“Don’t be a nickel out here looking for a dime” – Lyfe Jennings

if that doesn’t say enough about what i mean i’ll explain.

if you consider yourself to be a decent human being, that being, sweet, smart, caring, and somewhat good looking, when you deserve just the same amount in a relationship. Don’t ever let anyone treat you like you’re less than what you are. The perfect guy will think the sun shines out of your  ASS .

3. TRUST him.

Hey, stop going through his phone. If he’s cheating on you.. guess what?

YOU’LL find out. Don’t be so obvious and guilt trip him. give him the choice to have you and see how much of a humble person you are. Keep your posture and head strong.Let your walls down if you’re trying to let someone in.

If you don’t get hurt along the process you’ll never appreciate it.

 

4.  LOVE

that’s the most important thing.. LOVE HIM.

“All that i know is i don’t know how to be something you miss, your name… forever the name on my lips” – Taylor Swift

let’s get serious. i always say this. LOVE COMES FIRST

love yourself first before you try to love anyone else.

If you give someone a chance and show them that you’re in it for love. everything will come together